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February 28, 2009
A dialogue on Biracial Identity
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I am biracial, Japanese and white. The classes I take on identity have brought me to believe that while my teachers have important history to share, we don't overlap as much as one might think. Rather, I have come to believe the new generation sooner than later will see the colors of human skin just as we see the colors of the sky.
I am very aware of my racial identity and claim it with as much pride as I can, as that is my defense as a minority and female. Also, I know that I have less prejudices towards other ethnicities than my ancestors from either side.
Posted by: Katy | Feb 28, 2009 5:04:56 PM
Hi, Ken, and thanks for the not-so-sneak preview version of your upcoming show. I think that your point here: "we pigeon-hole biracial people into the socially 'marked' race – in the case of black and white in America that's the black race -- rather than allow them into the socially unmarked race – the white race (at least in America from its beginning until now)" is hard to deny, at least about men who have one black parent and one white one. But I don't know how true it is for women with similar parentage, and I think that it's very questionable when we look at people whose "marked" parent is East Asian, or Latino, or American Indian. (But then I get confused about whether those kinds of identity are biracial rather than bi/multi-ethnic, etc.) I hope that your guests and/or commenters can shed more light on those other kinds of biracial identities.
Posted by: Vance Ricks | Mar 1, 2009 6:53:11 AM
In your blog, you identify the two guys as WG and BG. That's their names for purposes of the dialog. As such, they are equal to using "Bill" and "Sam." Or "Mary" and "Martha." Or "X" and "Y." One of the problems with naming is that we have just as strong a subconscious tendency to stereotype or connote meanings from names as we do any other particular labels. For instance, if you had used "Buffy" and "Leroy." Or "Jim Chee" and "Nancy Drew."
I am a 70 year old white male named David. Your use of WG as a name led me to identify more strongly with him (or with that character, maybe it's a female WG, who knows? I was making an assumption.)
In my family of origin, my father claimed to be a "Heinz 57" but predominantly Scotch-Irish, and my mother was a child of two Norwegian immigrants.
Her skin tone was light tan and her hair was black, but she had blue eyes.
My dad did look "Irish" or "Scot," having pasty white skin, reddish hair, and blue eyes. He would not tan in the sun, just sunburn. I'm like that.
But none of us, me, or my two parents, are white. We're more pinkish. I almost said "flesh tone," but what is that? What if your flesh is tinted with dark brown?
Here's an anecdote based on a chance encounter in an airport terminal waiting room. My wife and I were chatting with a fellow passenger, also white. She was also a grandmother. Call her Shirley for now. Shirley was talking about her precocious kindergartner granddaughter, little Janie. Shirley said Janie watches the news and keeps up with politics. This conversation took place last fall right after the presidential election.
Shirley said she asked Janie what was significant about Barack Obama getting elected president.
Janie said, "What does significant mean?"
Shirley said, "Well, it means that Barack Obama is the first Black to be elected president in history."
Then Janie asked, "What does Black mean?"
Turns out that Janie's preschool class is multicultural. All different races and colors. But Janie never noticed. She thought Black was merely one of the crayons in the box.
By the way, my son, who is white, married a black woman. Her skin is very dark. They have a son who is now a mixed race child. He attends a predominantly black middle school.
The two parents are now divorced and my son has remarried to a woman from South America, with olive complexion. My son has custody, but the grandson spends significant time shuttling back and forth between his parents each week. His mother has two more children, both black, from different men. There's been several in and out of her house.
His step-mother loves him and treats him like a son, but there's always step-issues; besides, she speaks almost no English, which really hurts their communication within the family.
My grandson has some confused feelings about his racial identity. I can't say I blame him. By the same token, given his chaotic family situation, I also fear that he will grow up with some real difficulty knowing how to relate to women intimately, particularly, with a wife or significant other. In his experience, such things have looked pretty temporary, and conflicted.
But that's another philosophical topic, I suppose.
Good luck with this discussion. I hope it will raise consciousness, and possibly, help us with our human relationships regardless of race, ethnic, or other linguistic and social stereotypes that make up our mental categories about others.
Posted by: david Thomas | Mar 2, 2009 7:19:19 AM
If anyone is still tracking this discussion, I want to add that the movie Australia has an excellent subtext about a biracial child that comprises the narrative thread that holds the whole sprawling story together. Check it out.
Posted by: david Thomas | Mar 6, 2009 7:23:28 AM
I wanted to pick up just a little on the comments of kids. My daughter (white and 6) was trying to describe which of her friends she was talking about. She said that her friend had dark skin and black hair. I thought, of course she has black hair, and then realized that my daughter doesn't see that. Good for her and I look forward to seeing what she notices over time.
Posted by: Craig Daniels | Mar 6, 2009 8:23:06 AM
Dear President Obama:
First and foremost, congratulations on being our 44th President of the United States of America.
During your campaign, I agreed with your call for change and I still do; a change in our economy and a change in how things are done in Washington.
You are the epitome of what positive things can happen from change. A change from the racial divide of miscegenation that so deeply swept our country decades ago to a country known today for accepting people of all cultures, backgrounds and colors. However, I am waiting for one big change…to accept who you truly are…the God made biracial man, our President of the United States. I and my family have been disappointed about the message you give to millions of people throughout our great country by saying if you are biracial you can choose to be of ‘one’ race.
Those who believe that a person who is one part black should identify ONLY with that race support the intolerant one-drop rule created by a racially prejudiced government at a particular point in history. Despite that rule being held illegal (U.S. Supreme Court outlawed Virginia's ban on inter-racial marriage in Loving v. Virginia (1967), it declared Plecker's Virginia Racial Integrity Act and the one-drop rule unconstitutional) there are some who want to hold to that fanatical and discriminatory rule.
This close minded thinking underlies the attack often faced by biracial people that they are trying to deny or are ashamed of who they are. Being biracial does not mean denying the colorful heritages we possess. Personally, I understand the difficulty you may have encountered growing up as a biracial young man, especially having a brown complexion.
Yes, biracial people from the time they are born to the time they die are constantly asked to choose their "primary" race, or others will do it for them. We are called offensive names like; yellow banana, oreo, mutt, etc., all meant to hurt who we truly represent, a nation of one blood. However, this is a new day, a changed day where we can finally embrace who we really are.
To be the 44th President of the United States, who is biracial, should be a proud statement of equality that exemplifies and represents what the United States is known for; a nation that embraces all shades, colors, and cultures of people.
Other well-known people, who are biracial, have expressed their sentiments when asked the question, what are you; Derek Jeter of the New York Yankees said “I’m not black or white but both of these things.” Vin Diesel refuses to segregate himself to one race and identifies himself as biracial. Growing up, he had many questions about his ethnic origins and what they made him. Although most people guess he's part Italian and African-American, he said "I'm hoping I can show kids where you came from isn't as important as what you can make of yourself."
Like you President Obama, I am the blending of two races. My mother is black and my father is white. As with your mother and father, my parents were able to see and experience a love that bridged racial divides.
Throughout the years, as I got older and like you, I faced some extremely difficult and joyful times. Early in my life, I experienced both the harsh reality of my mother and father divorcing and then I witnessed the wonderful blending of new stepparents.
As a biracial child, I remember telling my father about a time when I was in the third grade my teacher asked for the children to stand up based upon their race. When she told all the white kids to stand up, I stood up. When she told all the Hispanic kids to stand up, I sat down. Then she told all the Black kids to stand up and I stood up. My father said that was a defining moment for me in being biracial that I still stand up for today.
When I was 15, I saw a movie with Halle Berry and thought the world of her, as did most teenage males my age. However, I saw her as someone like me, biracial. On my sweet-16 birthday, my father arranged for Ms. Berry to surprise me with a telephone call. From that point on the two of us exchanged letters and referred to each other as big sister and little brother. I believed Ms. Berry was a face of hope for biracial people. I looked up to her because she embodied the blending of races. However as I got older and much to my dismay, I heard Ms. Berry claim that she was black not biracial. This caused me to see the woman, who I once called my big sister, a runaway from all who are biracial. Then another face of hope showed up, you President Obama, only for me to again experience disappointment.
While you were sworn-in as our 44th President and my Commander and Chief that I am proud for you to be, I am in Afghanistan. For the past 10 years, I have faithfully with love and honor served in our Armed Forces. I serve not for myself but for the love of the United States of America.
On election night, you said “This victory alone is not the change we seek – it is only the chance for us to make that change. And that cannot happen if we go back to the way things were. It cannot happen without you. For that is the true genius of America – that America can change.”
Therefore, President Obama we cannot go back to the one-drop of black blood rule. With you as President, America has truly come a long way. However as you said, “there is so much more to do.” As with your children I to want my future children to live to see the next century and be as fortunate as the woman you spoke about, Ann Nixon Cooper; to see a change for all races of people including those of us who are biracial.
The question for you President Obama is what progress will we have made? Identifying to one race, clouds the dream that Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. wished for 45 years ago when he said; “I have a dream that my four children will one day live in a nation that will not judge them by the color of their skin but by the content of their character”.
In your speech "A More Perfect Union" you said that race is an issue that you believed this nation could not afford to ignore right now and I agree. I am part of that next generation of young people you spoke to who possesses the attitude, belief and openness to change that gives you the greatest hope.
I can only ask that during your administration you renew the discussion about race and stand up for me and all of us who are biracial as I stood-up in the 3rd grade. President Obama, now is your chance for your children and all of us who are biracial to clear the clouds about race by answering the call. This is your moment. This is your time.
Respectively,
SPC. Eric C J,
U.S. Army
Posted by: IntegrityDemands | Mar 7, 2009 7:34:45 PM
A multiracial background is going to be increasingly common as our world moves forward and embraces the essential oneness of humanity. In the United States, examples of beautiful exemplary Americans of multiracial background abound and in my opinion break down artificial barriers between human beings of all backgrounds. In Portland, OR where I live, there is even a blog in the Examiner that focuses on biracial issues http://www.examiner.com/x-9288-Portland-Biracial-Family-Issues-Examiner.
Posted by: Scott Olson | May 8, 2009 1:50:25 PM
Everybody and I mean everybody has called Barack a "black man" but I have yet to hear him call himself a "black man." He makes references to being black but to my limited knowledge, he falls short of placing the hat on his head. I've been wrong before, but I'd like to know when he called himself, "black."
Posted by: blackinjun | Nov 20, 2009 8:12:41 AM
When I first entered university, I was living on my own and had to pay my own bills.
So for two years I got by working the night shift in a factory. Athough study during the day and work during the night took a toll on my body, it was a great time in my life and I remember those days with great fondness.
On my first day on the job I was taken around by the Supervisor and introduced to the other guys on the shift.
The machinary was loud and everyone wore ear plugs, so the initial introductions were brief and relied mostly on a few loudly spoken words, and some facial gestures.
I clearly remember the first guy I was introduced to that night, being a young man called Adam.
Now Adam looked for the most part to be Chinese, but like many eurasians, something about him looked different. When I was first introduced to him I could not hear him speak because of the noise, and his features were partly obscured by the safety gear he had on.
I later found out that he was born in the US, spoke with an American accent, and had a Polish father.
As time moved on, I realised, as all the other guys on the shift knew only too well, that Adam never mentioned his mother, nor his self-evident part-chinese lineage.
Because of this, during our mealtimes Adam bore the brunt of many sarcastic comments about his background.
Some guys would ask:
"Adam, are you Chinese?"
To which he would respond by saying that "No, I am an American with a Polish father"
When asked if his mother was Chinese, Adam would often use profanities, get up and leave the table in a huff.
Everyone would chuckle as a result, because it was clear that Adam had an issue with being referred to as Chinese.
I remember feeling quite embarassed for him, and wondered how his mother would have felt knowing the extent he would go to hide his Chinese background.
Well, things sometimes go full circle, and here I am now the father of a bi-racial child.
For me, it would be a nightmare magnified ten-fold if my son ever behaved like he was embarassed of his Chinese or Anglo lineage.
Although at the end of the day I hope that my son sees himself as an Australian first and foremost, I hope he always recognises how lucky he is to come from two proud, enriched and admirable cultures.
I hope that he can embrace both parts of his identity equally, and take from them what he need to carve his own identity in this world.
Posted by: JStone | Jan 6, 2010 8:38:35 PM